Monday, May 12, 2014

Rob and Carolyn get hitched


Just as things started heating up in Wichita for the season, we dropped Ben with Nana and Papa and headed east to the heat for Rob and Carolyn's wedding.  As the Denver weather had been warm with late-Spring patterns of snow and cold, I was looking very forward to the Wichita heat and humidity-whaaaa??

We made it into town with perfect timing to greet friends Angela and Brian and grab a hug before we headed to the rehearsal dinner and they headed to a baseball game. The rehearsal dinner was at Flint Hills National Golf club where Rob had been a member when he lived in Wichita.  It's definitely a hidden gem in the town and we joked that Rob had had a bubble placed over the club for the evening as the weather was perfectly warm, calm and dry.  The BBQ dinner was simple and delicious and had just the right amount of Flint Hills Fancy.  It was a very relaxing evening and lacked the traditional toasts and slide-shows often included in rehearsal festivities.  It was great to see some friends of Rob's we'd known before and to meet his new wife and her family.

The next morning allowed a breakfast date at an old favorite restaurant, a drive by our old house and a couple different visits with friends.  There wasn't enough time for any of it but it was great to visit and squeeze growing kiddos and babies and see that our friends are doing well.
We hurried back to the hotel to prep for the 2pm wedding and grab the shuttle to the Cathedral.  Extensive renovations had recently been completed and I was thankful the wedding was there as I'd never visited this beautiful church when we lived in Wichita. The traditional Catholic mass and ceremony was typically lengthy but beautiful.  A long gap before the reception meant lots of time for drinking with friends Brian and Angela and other wedding guests at the hotel. Lots of Rob's friends had had a little too much fun the night before and were slow to join our party.  I was just overwhelmingly thankful that for once it wasn't me.

The reception was fun and seeing Rob so blissfully happy was delightful.  The toasts were beautiful and tear-inducing (the true test,) and dinner was delicious.
The second-shift bartenders were extremely generous and made drinks too strong to take down.  That blessing in disguise meant we were back to our room at 11pm and bidding a sad adieu to Brian and Angela.

The bride and groom hosted an amazingly delicious breakfast in the hotel the next morning before they headed to their mini-honeymoon at a spa in Kansas City.  They will take a longer honeymoon to Europe in the fall.  They have a beautiful home in Omaha, Nebraska and Rob has surprisingly taken to cutting his grass and being a proud suburban home-owner.

We made one last stop on the way out of town to meet brand-new baby Charlotte.  She is the first baby of some of our first friends in Wichita, Ken and Tracy.
As we drove through Hays, KS on the way home, the temperature reached 95 degrees.  Sadly we knew we were driving home to a VERY late Spring snowstorm with temps barely reaching 30 degrees.
We got home to Nana and Papa's and enjoyed a Mother's Day dinner and got reports of the fun weekend they had had. 

Flint Hills National


Seriously the MOST gorgeous evening


More excitement in Wichita that morning than we'd ever witnessed














The wedding party used the trolley for pics and to get back to the hotel.


Brian and Angela, aka, "AB"


the one and only Patron


Hydrangeas and tulips and statice, oh my!

A lovely pic of AB



Our deck Monday morning-SO painful!

Thursday, May 1, 2014

SKCEE Scamper

Today Tante joined me at Ben's school to volunteer for the first ever SKCEE Scamper.  Each class raised funds for technology and para teacher hours and then ran laps around the school track.  Ben's school is comprised of 3 yr olds through kindergarten and the difference in their running abilities was drastic and amusing.   There was a DJ with fantastic music to entertain the parents and encourage the kids and several local businesses donated gift cards for a raffle.  In the end, the school raised $10k of their $12k goal and the kids had a blast.  I look forward to helping again next year.




Although he runs for hours everyday, the only Scampering Ben did was S_L_O_W.

Sunday, April 27, 2014

benny and the jets

Ryan has begun a thrilling new activity for Ben!! It's something this germ-a-phobe mama would never have begun but something I'm so glad Ryan and Ben can share.......

are you stumped??


Here are some hints......





 a better clue......
that's our bathroom



drumroll.....








Only one thing creates such copious bubbles from Ben's hippie kid soap and that is the bathtub jets.  While I love a good soak in a hot-tub with jets on high I've always steered away from using them in our tubs at home, (though we've always had them,) because I've feared the germs swarming in the water that never fully drains from them.  I realize it's likely an irrational phobia, but I'm quite thrilled Ryan's willing to be the resident germ-stirrer.  He turns them on secretly so Ben never turns them on without water in the tub and we've established that "only Daddy can do the jets," so I don't have to be a part of it.  Ben absolutely squeals with delight at the jets, and in the top pictures, had snuck out of the tub to run through the house covered in bubbles.  The only thing missing is Uncle Joe who has always done the absolute best rendition of Benny and the Jets for Ben's amusement.


Thursday, April 24, 2014

Aunt Kathy

On Monday April 14th, Ryan's aunt Kathy passed away from complications of cancer.  She was uncle John's former wife and mom to cousins Christopher and Kathleen.  A loving and fitting tribute to her life was enjoyed by family and friends yesterday.  As one of her high school friends put it so well, there were many people from many times, places, and parts of Kathy's life who came together to celebrate her.  I am hopeful our family can now come together to support Christopher and Kathleen as they grieve the loss of their mother.   I am thankful Kathy is at peace and out of pain. Kathy clearly touched the lives of many and will be very missed.
Kathleen Cecilia DeFino

September 9, 1949 - April 14, 2014
Kathleen Cecilia DeFino was born in Buffalo, New York, September 9, 1949 and died April 14, 2014 in Littleton, Colorado. Loving mother to Christoper and Kathleen Stramel. Loving daughter of Anthony (deceased) and Mary DeFino. Dedicated sister of seven. Aunt to 30 and great aunt to 34. Former wife of John Stramel.

Kathy earned her Bachelor of Science Degree in Nursing and was a Nurse Practitioner. Kathy joined American Airlines in 1976. She retired in February after 38 devoted years. She loved her American Airlines family.

Visitation, 1PM, Wednesday, April 23, followed by a Mass of Christian Burial, 2PM, both at the Archdiocese of Denver Mortuary, 12801 West 44th Avenue, Wheat Ridge. Interment Mt. Olivet Cemetery.